The major issue which we are facing today is of fake narratives created by strong ecosystem consisting of few powerful people who are unable to digest the truthful pro-poor policies of Government and hence fake narratives such as intolerance, radicalization, fascism, blaming Government as dictatorship, anti-poor and pro-bizmen etc. are being successfully created with the support of people who want corruption to continue.

 

The present government has initiated many schemes for the benefit of poor and have tried to help them in every manner. As we all know that food, home and cloth are basic necessities of everyone. The following schemes of the Central Government have been initiated for the benefit of the poor, not to cover only the basic necessities but also to provide health and social security:

 

  • Pradhan Mantri Awas Yojna to provide free home to homeless. Under this scheme the Government is planning to deliver 2 crore homes to homeless which is the basic need.
  • Subsidized Foodgrains: The government is already providing subsidized food grains to poor through ration card.
  • Aayushman Bharat- free medical treatment up to Rs. 5 Lakhs. Poor people suffer a lot whenever any member fall ill because the medical treatment is very costly. So, the government has started world’s largest scheme to cover about 50 crore people under Aayushman Bharat scheme. It is helping poor people since they can get treatment of up to Rs. 5 Lakhs free of cost.
  • Free Electricity connection: Free electricity connection to poor has helped in lighting their houses.
  • Free Gas connection: Free gas connection has helped women of poor families a lot. They are saved from many illnesses suffered due to inhaling smoke while cooking food.
  • Jan Dhan Yojna: provides for opening of zero balance bank account for poor people and consequently it helped the government in transferring the subsidy under various schemes directly to the beneficiary and eradicating large scale corruption of intermediaries.
  • Accidental Insurance of Two Lakhs at a meagre premium of Rs.12/- p.a. Under this scheme every poor can get himself insured for Rs. 2 lakhs by paying a meagre premium of Rs.12/- p.a. Previously there was no such scheme and the family of victim used to suffer a lot in case of accidental death of earning member of family.
  • Life Insurance policy for 2 Lakh at a meagre premium of Rs.365/- p.a. Under this scheme every poor can get himself insured for Rs. 2 lakhs by paying a meagre premium of Rs.365/- p.a. Previously there was no such scheme and the family of victim used to suffer a lot in case of natural death of earning member of family.
  • Atal Pension Yojna Rs.5000/- p.m. at a meagre premium of Rs.210/- p.m. (A person who start investing at the age of 18 years). Besides various schemes mentioned above, the government has also started a scheme to provide pension to poor people at a meagre investment of Rs.210/- p.m.
  • Pradhan Mantri Sharm Yogi Mandhan- to provide pension of Rs.3000/- p.m. to unorganized sector earning less than Rs.15000/- p.m.
  • Pradhan Mantri Vaya Vandana Yojana- assured interest income for Senior Citizens. Senior Citizens were facing a lot of problem due to falling interest rates. Although falling interest rates are beneficial for businessmen as it helps them in obtaining finance at a low cost and thereby reducing their cost of production but at the same time it is not good for those who are relying on interest income after retirement. So, this scheme is very beneficial for Senior Citizens.
  • Pradhan Mantri Mudra Yojna: This scheme has been initiated to help the poor in starting their own business. Many poor people who could not start their own small businesses due to financial constraints got an opportunity under this scheme to obtain finance without any security. Although it has been noticed that some bankers are not advancing these loans and the government must look into it.
  • Startup India: This scheme has been initiated to promote youngsters to start their own innovative ventures. Till now many youngsters with innovative ideas could not start their venture due to financial constraints but now this scheme is helping many youngsters in achieving their dreams.

 

Even after launching so many schemes for the benefit of people from every walk of life, the government is criticized regularly by the left wingers who have no other work to do. Many educated people behave like illiterate and instead of helping the country in achieving various mile stones, they just concentrate on criticizing every decision of government. Such people find ways to criticize the government even during the time of pandemic. When the whole world is praising our government for tackling the pandemic in the best possible manner, these people are busy in finding faults instead of helping public.

 

Many leaders and workers belonging to political parties have been arrested for black marketing the essential medical goods, medicines, oxygen cylinders etc. Some state governments have found some hospitals indulging in wrong practices by showing their hospitals as full by booking beds either in fake names or in the name of patients not requiring admission in hospital.

 

Recently we have seen conflict amongst Israel and Palestine. The battle lasted 11 days wherein the Israel army took stern action against the terrorist outfit named Hamas. When this battle was going on the leader of opposition in Israel had openly supported the present PM without thinking about grabbing power. Whereas if you recall the Pulwama incident our opposition parties not only criticized the government for its failure to stop that attack rather raised questions on the surgical/ air strike done by our Army/ Air Force. Some so-called politicians even went to the extent of asking for proof of that strike. Many politicians were speaking the language of our neighboring country which facilitated that coward attack.

 

Many persons in India are supporting Hamas and opposing Israel for the reasons best known to them. These hypocrites shamelessly support terrorists and get annoyed when called anti nationals. These are the same people who on the one hand call the present government as fascist and on the other hand support terrorists. These people after abusing the Prime Minister with all demeaned words and openly supporting the terrorists and anti-nationals, say there is no freedom of speech in country.

 

These people are so shameless that they never think about the country’s image rather about their political benefit. What you can expect from such political parties and their leaders? These parties which ruled the country for about 60 years are asking the government about deficiency of medical infrastructure during the pandemic. Can medical infrastructure be built in such a short span? The present government has planned and started work on building 13 AIIMS/ world class Hospitals besides medical colleges. Now the point is whether the country was facing shortage of hospitals only and nothing else was required to be done after 2014? When the medical infrastructure of developed countries fallen short during this pandemic, how much infrastructure we needed for 135 crore population to deal with this pandemic?

 

The present government has done so much efforts to make the country self-reliant that the whole world is praising it. The glaring example of this is the country was not having a single unit manufacturing PPE kits and now the country is self-reliant in manufacturing PPE kits, masks, medicines required to fight with Covid 19 etc.

 

People say how long will you keep blaming Gandhi Family rule for deficient infrastructure etc. The reply to this query lies in analyzing the whole facts. Our country has a population of 135 crore approximately and building resources for such a huge population needs lot of efforts, huge investment and above all time. You cannot make good the losses of 60 years in a period of 7 years more so when you have opposition which keep creating troubles like shaheen bagh, farmers agitation etc., filing PIL to disrupt the vaccine drive so on and so forth.

 

The recent tool kits circulating in social media are enough to prove that how much positive contribution opposition is doing in the growth of country.  The most important fact and point which everyone must know is that during 2004-2014 the government policies were such which forced the Indian industry to stop manufacturing and start importing all the goods from China. During this tenure the government reduced the customs duty in such a manner that the manufacturing of local goods was costly as compared to imports. This act of government ruined the industry and converted all the manufacturing companies into importers. Creating manufacturing infrastructure is not an easy task. It needs time and investment but to ruin it, it takes just a policy decision.

 

More astonishing is the fact that the Prime Minister at that time was world renowned economist who miserably failed to see the future needs. It is really amazing to note that when the whole world is looking at our country as the largest consumer market, how could we allow them to rule us by stopping manufacturing of various goods and articles which were forced to import from other countries.

 

It is quite easy to construct a building on barren land but it is very difficult to construct building at a pit full of filth more particularly when the opponents keep on digging that pit and filling it with filth side by side. If you take some action against them, they will call it politically motivated and if you don’t take any action, they will keep on digging the pit and filling it with filth so as to blame you for delay in constructing building. Same is the case with our opposition political parties which raised hue and cry when the corona was spreading but at the same time keep supporting the Shaheen Bagh and Farmers agitation in the name of freedom of speech. When our scientists announced corona vaccine, they not only raised doubts about the efficacy, rather created suspicion in the mind of public through social media platforms. Some so called foreign returned educated politicians called it vaccine of ruling party and openly announced not to get vaccinated and told his supporters to follow him. These people created fear in the mind of public in the name shortage of oxygen and medicines. In such a panic situation public started storing oxygen and medicines besides black marketeers, due to which some shortage occurred at some places. During this period many persons were arrested for black marketing oxygen, medicines, vaccines. Even some hospitals were found showing non-availability of beds by admitting fake patients. Seeing at all such incidents it seems to be full-fledged conspiracy to create panic amongst the public in such hard times.

 

If you are still not satisfied with the facts just check in the efforts, put in by Government to develop most of the advanced defense systems in the country and the credit for this goes to our Scientists, DRDO and to Government for providing every support and funding. It is for the first time since independence that the proposals sent by defense officers are getting approval and funding without wastage of time. What you think about China and Pakistan? They tried to threaten India many times but could not dare to go further it is only because they are well aware about the preparation of our Army and the arms, ammunition, defense equipment, gadgets, fighter planes, tanks, missiles developed by us. In the coming 5/10 years you will our country as a super power exporting defense systems to other countries.

 

The opposition tries to create issues and problems so that the public remain busy in petty issues and keep criticizing the Government. Just imagine that if during Corona Pandemic we are facing financial problems in managing our families’ of 5/6 members, how the Government is managing all the things when the revenue receipts fallen. The Government was required to spend a huge amount in managing this pandemic on the one hand and the revenue receipts were falling on the other hand. The Government announced various packages to revive various sectors even during this financial crisis. I agree that the petrol/ diesel prices are high but we need to understand the position of Government also which is forced to spent a huge amount on defense due to Chinese threat. All these things are going on side by side because of our sacrifice and contribution.

 

You may criticize the Government on one or all the issues but the world is praising the Government because they comment after analyzing all pros and cons. We comment just on the basis of whatever little knowledge we have. If you consider all the factors carefully you may find some mistakes but not blunders. Here you must see the example of the State Government which tried to malign the image of Central Government and got trapped in its own web when the Supreme Court enquired the whole issue. Such third-class politicians are a blot on democracy and are more harmful and dangerous for the public. These selfish people can go to any extent to gain publicity and it was proved when this government spent Rs.125 crores on TV advertisements during January to march quarter but had expressed inability in paying the rent of Oxygen tankers. More painful is the fact that the public of state died just due to mismanagement, as it was proved in enquiry that the state was getting more than required oxygen. Now this party is trying to grab power in other states by offering free bees as it did in their state. If the public got trapped in this free bees’ trap, it may suffer huge loss.

 

If you Analise the facts since 2014 you will find that certain people are acting on behalf of or in collusion with some foreign countries to dislodge the present government. This is supported by the fact that such people are giving statements which are in line with the statements issued by our enemy countries. While speaking they never bother if their statement is demoralizing the army, scientists, doctors or any other community because they are simply concerned with their political career. So, the public must remain diligent otherwise they may repent for their actions as it happened in 2004, when the Atal Bihari Bajpai’s government was dislodged just because prices of some vegetables increased disproportionately.

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The Prime Minister of our country Mr. Narendra Modi is a distinguished person having extraordinary energy to work for the nation. He has served the state of Gujarat for 12 years approximately before becoming Prime Minister of India.

A particular class does not like people like Mr. Modi for reasons which are not publicly known. Generally, the people of India love him and that is the reason that he has been re-elected with thumping majority.

Actually, since Independence India has seen the rule of Congress party for approximately 54 years. When India got Independence the first prime minister of India Mr. Nehru, was fond of English lifestyle because he studied in U.K. and belonged to a rich family. He was not well aware of mentality of communists and other people. That was the reason that he handed over the work of history writing to people who did their best to put all the real heroes of India out of the history and include the invaders. They praised the invaders to such extent that they became heroes for coming generations.

The main principle of communist mentality is to always oppose the establishment. They always work anti-establishment. For full details about this communist philosophy, you may refer a series of articles “वामपंथ: “अ” से लेकर “ज्ञ” तक” published on our website in hindi.

The 54 years rule of Congress has given India an illness called corruption for which no treatment is visibly available. This tendency of corruption is engraved mostly in every person of India. Somehow the villages and villagers are still honest and that is an advantage for our country.

Now, if you see on the one hand are the communists working anti-establishment all the time and on the other hand are those corrupt people who are afraid of losing their corruption money due to various steps being initiated by the Government. The third category opposing the PM is of community whose appeasement has been stopped now.

The Government is working day and night to make India a super power and for that it is necessary to eradicate corruption and malpractices present in our system. For this overhauling of system is required and for that the support of public is a must. If you see this Government’s working, it has changed or brought so many new laws within 6 years, which were not even brought during 60 years since independence. Maximum laws of our country were introduced by Britishers and over the years, the previous governments never bothered to alter them to suit the present situation. Whatever changes were done in law were to appease some particular community or caste. e.g. Shah Bano case, Reservation policy, minority policy etc.

Since independence this is the first Government which is working for every citizen without bothering to appease some particular caste or community. Still there are certain decisions which the Government is reluctant to take because the abovesaid parties are waiting for any such decision so that they can provoke riots and destabilize the Government e.g. CAA and NRC. These opponents don’t mind in taking help of other countries even to destabilize the Government because many decisions have been taken in the interest of the nation but has caused loss to them e.g. Demonetization, GST, FCRA, CAA/ NRC etc.

According to Dr. Subramaniam Swamy, leading Supreme Court Advocate, a consignment of forged currency consisting of thousands of crore rupees was unloaded in Tamilnadu under the patronage of a Union Leader. He has clearly mentioned the name of leader also in his video available on youtube but the strange fact is, that person has never dared to prosecute Dr. Swamy. Besides the above instance there were many other reasons for demonetization. Due to certain corrupt officials / bizmen / professionals this exercise was manipulated but still it has been beneficial for the country.

Previously, the Bizmen had been complaining about double taxation on goods and had been demanding GST but when this Government implemented it, some started opposing it, why? Actually, all honest bizmen are very happy with GST and only the corrupt or tax evaders are opposing it. Although there were teething troubles in implementation but the Government has provided every support. It increased the working of accountants, C.A., Advocates and they started demanding more charges from bizmen. Some bizmen are opposing it just because they are required to maintain proper books or pay more to professionals.

Another great decision which has been taken by this Government is to remove Article 370. Indians have been demanding abolition of this article because 5 lakh Kashmiri Pandits were forced to leave their homes, as per various claims. This was biggest genocide in the world but have you ever heard any of these hypocrites talking about it? A single death of Akhlakh matters for them as it suits to their agenda and they started calling the country intolerant but they never talk on brutal killing of Ankit Sharma, Kamlesh Tiwari and many others. They tried their level best to provoke violence but could not succeed.

Fortunately, after a fight of 492 years, Hindus won the war against the ill act of demolishing Ram Temple when the Hon’ble Supreme Court gave its decision in favour of Hindus. Our tolerance is such that even after such a big decision no one celebrated it just because that community may feel hurt, whose followers are found killing innocent people every other day shouting a specific slogan. These opponents are so hypocrite that they act unitedly in tandem and make an innocent person feel like culprit.

Citizenship Amendment Act was the most required thing for our country. India being the only nation for Hindu, Sikh, Jain etc. communities, it provides for grant of citizenship to persons religiously persecuted in Pakistan, Bangladesh and Afghanistan. In reality the population of all these communities, in the said countries, has reduced to such a large extent due to religious persecution. Above all it is applicable to a few thousand people who are already residing in India before December 2014, since long. Since all the mentioned countries are Islamic, Muslims are not included in that. Can anyone believe that a Hindu is religiously persecuted in India? Then how Muslims can be in an Islamic State? But these opponents started opposing this decision too which resulted in riots in Delhi which claimed 53 lives, as per reports.

As the Government was acting so fast and taking decisions one after another, these people started agitation at various places in the name CAA. Actually, it was never about CAA rather it was a cumulative effect of last few decisions taken by the Government. These opponents are so shrewd and cunning that they knowingly spread lies just to create disturbance. Shaheen Bagh protests and then the very well-planned riots prove the case.

The Government has not stopped even after all their efforts and brought in another amendment in law for the benefit of farmers. According to the amendments the farmers will be now free to sell their produce to any person or party, whosoever pays higher price and save the mandi tax and brokerage. They can also enter into an agreement with corporates for contract farming but all safeguards have been provided so that they don’t lose their right on land. Even the present MSP and Mandi system will continue and it will be prerogative of farmer to sell his produce, the way he likes. These opponents have again started spreading lies and provoking the farmers to agitate.

Now, the readers may ask that how a reasonable person can oppose a good act? It is possible only when someone does it with ulterior motives. They took full advantage of illiteracy while misguiding the public and creating false narratives.

There are three categories of people opposing every good action taken by government. First one is the political opponents. This category is supposed to oppose wrong actions of the government but they are opposing every good act instead. They provoke the people by misleading them. They are so desperate to acquire the power that they can go to any extent. They openly appease some communities and while doing so they forget that others are also residing here. We are facing the consequences of decisions taken by such power-hungry class to appease such communities, till date. While pursuing their preset agenda, they even oppose or criticize or raise questions on the integrity of the institutions like Army, ISRO etc.

Second class is that of communist mentality which always work anti-establishment until they themselves are in power. This communist mentality has done much damage to our country as clearly visible from present day poor condition of West Bengal where they were in power for decades. Urban Naxals are also part of this category. Detailed article on this category is also available on our website.

Third one and most dangerous category is opposing the government because they want to establish “Gajwa A Hind”. Many readers may not agree with author’s opinion and in that case, they can search various videos available on various social media platforms to know the level of gravity of situation. Mostly the elite and educated people belonging to this community are vigorously pursuing this objective and they are openly saying this thing in their community gatherings. Readers can see various videos of Jakir Naik and alikes. Maullana Madni has clearly, while commenting on Ram Temple decision, said that they will reclaim and rebuild the Babri Mosque when they came in power, may be after 50 years. One Akbaruddin Owaisi had clearly threatened in one public meeting that if police is removed for 15 minutes they will show their strength. Sharjil Imam, Amantulla Khan, Shehla Rashid etc. raised anti India slogans and as per reports they were also involved in provoking Delhi riots. These people are not afraid of anyone. Even our courts and governments never take stern action against them. The glaring example of this is Shahi Imam of Jama Masjid Delhi against whom numerous criminal cases are going on and he has been never arrested. He is roaming free because the government had told the court that if he is arrested, communal harmony will be disturbed. What the hell is this? I don’t understand that where the constitutional provisions go in such cases and why the so-called saviors of Constitution keep mum. They came out for candle march and agitation when any Akhlakh is killed but never speak when it is other way round, why?

Why and how we have become so coward? It is just because we have been told to be calm and tolerant since childhood but never told not to bear injustice. Why we pray the Krishna with Radha and not the Dwarkadhish who killed all demons and Kans. Had our parents told us to be brave and fight back, this situation would have never arisen. The rule of Mughals and Britishers has made us so coward that we keep on avoiding the visible threats, as we doing now. Some of you might still feel that there is no such threat but remember that 30 years ago Kashmiri Pandits were also thinking in same manner but what happened? They were looted, girls and women raped and were forced to leave their ancestral place, overnight. Dasna, Mewat, Kairana and many places in West Bengal, Kerala, Bihar, U.P. have seen repeat of Kashmir exodus. Even recently the Hindus are selling their houses in Delhi after riots.

We are lucky that the present government is nationalist and progressive. We have seen how this government is tackling the China and Pakistan. In past we were afraid of Pakistan but today it is not so even though China is also trying to threaten us but a befitting reply is being given. Now in my opinion we must support this government whole heartedly if we want a safe and developed country for our children. We all must act unitedly against the anti-nationals. Must do whatever we can. Provide financial support to the organizations working in national interest, speak openly against injustice and wrong acts, support nationalists on social media and oppose anti-nationals, like and share the videos and posts of national interest so as to create awareness and support this movement of saving the only country belonging to you.

We must try and pressurize the government to bring Population Control Act, Common Civil Code and such other laws immediately so as to save this country before it is too late.

If you don’t agree with any of the points given in this article or think otherwise, please do give your feedback or share it on the discussion forum of our website so that a healthy discussion can take place.

 

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If you see all the religions of world, you will find that Sanatan Dharma is the most tolerant and lenient because we follow the principles of “Vasudev Kutambhkam” and that’s why we welcomed everyone. People came to Bharat in the name of doing business and later on betrayed and encroached on our land. They partly succeeded in defeating some of our kings due to many reasons few of which were; weak kings in some states, non-unity amongst rulers of different States, excessive tolerance and avoiding the apparent threats, treating and considering everyone of high moral values and trustworthy etc.

Above all the main reasons were our religious sentiments and cultural values. In Sanatan philosophy we believe in respecting others, specifically we treated “Atithiti Devo Bhav:” and provided status of God to our guest because of which we never doubted the integrity of visitors coming to our country. Seeing our simplicity, hospitality and weaknesses, such visitors dared to think about capturing our country. At that time Bharat was not united and different kings were ruling various states. Transportation facilities were not available and hence friendship amongst kings were restricted up to neighboring States only. The only medium of communication or sending information was through messengers and which used to take a lot of time. So, whenever invaders attacked some state, sending message and seeking help from friendly states could not happen early and hence we lost states one by one. Only capable and brave kings could win and save their states.

It is pertinent to mention here that biggest lie of the world i.e. Mughals ruled Bharat for 800 years was taught to us, which is totally false. Communist writers wrote such false history just to demoralize us. If you search you will find that the Mughals never ruled whole of Bharat at any point of time. Although they ruled Delhi but even at that time there were many kings who were ruling bigger states or areas. Mughals could not win the whole of Bharat and the areas under their rule was scattered and kept changing hands.

This false lie created a fear amongst the mind of people as if Mughals were much powerful whereas the reality was they won maximum battles due to betrayal of our people only. After independence the communist lobby which wrote the history books just praised Mughals and Britishers and down played the role of our brave rulers. When you don’t know the true history of your great warriors/ancestors you cannot fight with liars.

Tolerance is an integral part of our culture and fear does not hold any place. We remained unaware and this tolerance converted into unseen fear with the passage of time. Actually, our upbringing was such that we never fought with any one because we followed varn system in which only kshatriya were supposed to be fighters. This mentality resulted into making us fearful and on the other hand the false stories narrating others as heroes had also impacted our mindset.

Though we have taught our children the stories of Dwarkadheesh (Lord Krishna who narrated Gita) and his preaching’s about non-tolerance of excesses of any sort but what our ancestors did? They taught us stories of Kanhaiya playing flute and dancing with Gopis. A person’s personality reflects his upbringing and whatever he sees during his childhood becomes part of his personality. The fighting spirit of our great warriors could not be inculcated into coming generations due to wrong interpretations of our sculptures.

The flaw in personality showed it’s impact at the time of independence when great visionary like Dr. Bhim Rao Ambedkar asked for whole transfer of population and another greedy leader preferred to just grab the power chair instead of listening him. One wrong decision can make the life hell is apparent today as we see the dominance and aggression of a particular community which instead of being thankful, is preparing to divide the country again.

They are behaving like a naughty child who is pampered by parents for every wrong act. Now to control that child you need to shed your fear and tolerance and show your bravery without which nothing will happen. Every one respect only a powerful person. You will rarely find anyone respecting a weak person.

Unless you show your bravery these illiterate and uneducated people will not refrain from committing sins. Once you show your power/ strength they will sit silently until they acquire majority and once they are in majority there will be no place for you in your own country. They are claiming every right saying they ruled the country for 800 years and we don’t counter them even though our ancestors were here since time immortal.

You have every right to disagree but the truth is that your tolerance is considered as your weakness and fear. Tolerance does have some limits and the day it crossed the limits there will be hue and cry only. So, it is better to control the things before they become worst. If you want to give your children a peaceful place to live you will have to act now.

Another problem with us is we being law abiding citizens expect the same from everyone whereas the other party does not believe in that philosophy, which they are clearly and openly saying again and again and you have closed your eyes.

Are the statements of one leader called Akbarrudin Owaisi from Hyderabad asking for removal of police for 10 minutes to show their strength to Hindus, Maullana Madni openly saying in media briefing that they will demolish the Ram Temple, immediately after Supreme Court judgement and the actions of some leaders during Delhi and Bangalore riots not enough to open your eyes and even after watching exodus of Kashmiri Pandits, condition of Hindus in Mewat, Kairana, Dasna, West Bengal, Kerala etc.?

If you don’t wake up from your deep slumber even now then note it that no one will be there to save you. Don’t expect everything to be done by the Government because it will not be possible to control this unruly mob unless you take the responsibility to save yourself. Even the constitution of India gives you liberty to act in self-defense and save your precious life. I don’t ask for doing anything against anyone. I just want to tell you to ensure safety of your family and to take every necessary step in that direction so that at the time of need you don’t feel helpless as the people of Delhi or Bangalore felt during riots.

The community which have weapons in every home for preparing their daily dishes needs nothing extra to save themselves but what about you? In your house you cannot find a knife to slice apple even what to talk of self-defense. In old times people used to have sticks in their homes to control animals but today you cannot find it in any house.

Most importantly please send your children to self-defense coaching classes so that atleast they are able to save themselves in case of any exigency. My motive is not to provoke anyone or against any particular community but this is just to awaken you to make arrangements so as to save youself and your family, keeping in view the recent incidents.

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In the present circumstances where Covid 19 has disturbed the whole country, everyone is finding it difficult to predict the future course of action. The major cause of concern is financial problem. Many people have lost their jobs, businesses have also suffered a great set back and everyone is worried.  You might find it difficult to accept but let me tell you that this position will be changed and happy days will be back. Although it may not happen within a short while but rest assured October onwards you will find that the things will not deteriorate further and will start improving. From January onwards we may feel some visible positive movement in some sectors.

Actually, what happens when such pandemic like things occur? Everyone stops spending money. We spend very carefully on daily needs only. But even during this pandemic there are people who have earned a lot and you all know that. During such times money circulation gets disturbed and it gets accumulated in a few hands. As the nature of money is to keep flowing and to change hands but during pandemic it remains stuck up at one place for long time and same thing has happened this time also.

In 2007 there was recession all over the world and the public got scared due to which there was shortage of money in market. But that situation changed earlier than predicted. The reason was that we were a developing country. Even today we are developing country and hence, the things will roll out. In simple words, when the gravity of Covid 19 will reduce, those who have earned a lot of money during this tenure will start spending it either for purchasing luxury items to uplift their standard to another level or they will invest the same somewhere else. In any case, it has to come out. As soon as it will come out in circulation, the things will start moving towards normalcy.

Many of them will start new ventures, particularly in view of ban on imports from China, there will be lot of demand for normal goods. This demand will motivate those rich people to invest in new ventures which will create jobs and improve the money circulation. Secondly, with the improvement in conditions, everyone having money will start spending it instead of keeping it in safe custody.

What I forsee is not as bad as we are feeling today. As the Covid 19 fear will reduce, things will take a big turnaround.  So, we need to think positive. Another reason for me to think in this manner is ban on Chinese imports and the Government’s proposal to boost make in India products. Many youngsters have started new ventures even during this pandemic. The number of Companies incorporated during the month of July 2020 is more than last year and it also shows a ray of hope. The need of hour is not to feel demoralize rather to think about encashing the opportunities lying ahead.

Our business community must think about starting or increasing their exports. The domestic demand is to be met by local businessmen as Chinese goods will no longer be available. So, get ready for coming bright future and pass this pandemic time in innovating ideas or thinking about new strategies of marketing. Best of luck to all Indians.

Be good, be safe and be positive.

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Profession is considered as more dignified than business because one can enter into it only after acquiring specific qualification, whereas business can be started by anyone anytime. That is the reason, professionals get respect everywhere. Here, some may feel that it is not true, it is true subject to the condition, what matters more for you, money or dignity and respect. In every profession, we can find people with much money and people with more respect. Those who give preference to dignity and respect may be not earn much money, as compared to those who prefer money to dignity and respect. So, it is always individual’s perspective of viewing the success. The criteria for evaluating success, differs from person to person. Some people think that having more money means more success and some feels otherwise. Whatever may be the criteria of evaluating success, what matters at the end is people’s perception about your profession. Both type of professionals is responsible in building the image of profession. Such image, decides the future prospects of coming generations.

In today’s competitive environment every professional is facing great difficulties in settling down. May it be Company Secretary, Advocate, Chartered Accountant, M.B.A, Engineer or else. Every youngster completing his professional course expects a job, offering good salary package. Few merit holders of each profession get campus placement and the remaining keep struggling. There are various reasons for this but here I am restricting myself to the deficiencies / obstacles, which the professional themselves can remove. To my knowledge and understanding, those are as follows:

THE EDUCATION SYSTEM

Our education system has some basic problems. We teach students to become an expert of specific field, rather than making them a good professional and human being first.In the race of obtaining highest marks, the students try to learn the subject instead of understanding the same. A person whose basic concepts are clear, is better placed than a person who just learns the subject because the first person is in better position to tackle or handle the adverse position, spontaneously. A person who just learns the subject will get demoralized, when any ticklish question is put to him/ her during interview.

Such raising of child does not allow his/ her best to come out because he/ she is prepared to reply the questions in the defined manner only and hence he/ she never thinks out of box. Such person can be easily demotivated and gets frustrated while facing even small issues as he/ she is never trained to face complicated issues/ problems.

The abovementioned qualifications make a person specific field expert and hence he/ she keeps looking for job in that specific field. Professionals, who have not kept themselves restricted to the bookish knowledge are more successful in life because they prepare themselves to face adverse situation of any kind. Such person adjust himself/ herself according to requirements of employer.

So, every professional must try to acquire working knowledge of every subject which is related to his/ her field.

TRAINING

Training plays a pivotal role in the making of a professional. While selecting your trainer or institution you must make sure that it will provide you the required exposure. Although, there is limitation with every trainer and institution. They cannot provide you training in all the fields. Before starting training, you must make your mind about the field which you would like to pursue, primarily. After deciding the field, you must find out the best available trainers/ institutions, which can impart you training. Before joining training, enquire about the image & environment of that institution, nature of boss and staff, exposure available there. For this you can meet the trainees who have undergone training there.

Training means practical exposure to work which you learn in books. Don’t think that you will be fed like a child during training rather be prepared to do the work yourself. Put maximum effort in studying and doing the assignment yourself instead of asking others. Try to do as much of variety of work as you can. The more you do, the more you learn. Always take responsibility of work, even if it goes wrong. Those who try to shift the blame on others, suffer big failures in life. Don’t be afraid of mistakes but at the same time try to rectify them on your own. Remember that it’s not bad to make mistake, just make sure that you don’t make the same mistake again and again.

Training is the most important part of professional as it will shape his career. Future job prospects also depend upon it. So, you must treat it as the most important part of a professional’s life and take the decision accordingly.

RESPECT AND FRIENDLY

You must respect your trainer. Don’t take this lightly. Respect does not mean what you pretend on face, it means what you feel by heart. Join training only under that professional whom you respect by heart. If you respect a person by heart, you take him seriously. During training, there are many things which the trainer tells you only when he feels, that you respect him. Even when you pretend that you respect him, he is aware about the truth. This smartness causes loss to the trainee only.

Another thing is, be friendly with colleagues, even if you have more qualification or degrees or you belong to a rich family. Your elegant behaviour will be beneficial for you and your rude or arrogant behaviour will cause loss to you only. In any case, the loss suffered during training, will be irreparable but you can avoid it, simply by following the above advice.

PATIENCE

The new generation lacks patience. They just try to compete with their friends and relatives. They see how much salary has been offered to their friends or relatives and even the parents keep reminding them about the success stories of such children. Such a comparison makes the life of professional more miserable. Every one cannot get the same start or opening because of difference in their attitude, thinking, perspective, intelligence, behaviour, talent, strength, weaknesses etc. One who gets lower start in beginning may excel later on in career and another who gets higher start initially may not maintain the same pace later on. Every person who has some qualities does get recognition and reward. In some cases, it may come sooner whereas in other cases it may come later. So, one must perform his duty diligently and sincerely with patience, which is must for every professional.          

SWOT ANAYLSIS

The new generation does not pay attention in recognizing their strengths, weaknesses, opportunities and threats (SWOT). Though, every professional read this statement many times during his / her studies but forget to apply the same to himself/ herself. They learn this statement but fail to understand it and this is what I want to convey. Since, they only learn this statement, they fail to take it’s benefit even for themselves. Had they understood this statement in true sense, they would not have faced such problems, today. 

So before entering into practical life, every professional must evaluate himself/ herself on the above scale and then choose the field accordingly. Moreover, evaluation of selected field on above parameter must also be done, to be successful. Your teachers, trainers, parents, friends and relatives can help you in identifying these qualities. Don’t be in hurry. Take your time before entering into practical world because once you enter there, your every movement will be noticed.

VERSATILITY

The professionals restrict themselves and that’s why they keep looking for a job in a particular field. A Company Secretary keep himself restricted to Company Law and never think of doing job in Accounts, Taxation, GST, Customs, IPR’s etc. An advocate keep himself restricted to civil or criminal matters and does not think of working in other fields such as taxation, customs, IPRs etc. Same is the position of other professionals.

When a professional will carry out the SWOT analysis of himself/herself alongwith that of selected field, he/ she will certainly have more options to choose from. Try to make yourself versatile. A versatile professional gets settled easily. So, if you have missed the chance of becoming versatile during training, then have patience and learn other things to make yourself versatile and competent to be able to fit in more job profiles.

JOB ORIENTED

The new generation prepares himself from job perspective only. They never think of or plan to do practice or business. A professional who prepares himself from both angles is more successful because he is mentally prepared for both options and while being in job, he gathers experience of doing business also. Such person does not keep himself restricted to the work assigned to him rather keeps his eyes and ears open to learn and understand other things also. He tries to learn the work assigned to other employees and thus gain knowledge of an additional field.

MONEY MATTERS

Although, money matters for everyone but in my opinion, if you are more money minded then you should not join a profession rather go for business because in that field money is the major criteria and ethics comes at last. Even in that field, those who do business ethically, earns not only respect rather become a brand in the market. For starting business there is no need for undergoing training and thus you need not wait for earning profits/ income. In profession you should not expect earnings during your training period. It is a learning period for you, during which you must try to gain the maximum knowledge and experience, which will help you in earning money, later on. I have seen professionals, who were more money minded, have either spoiled their career or have no respect in profession even after earning lot of money. So, my sincere advice to the budding professionals is to concentrate on building reputation first, money will follow automatically.

Further every professional must treat himself as a student, if he wishes to succeed in life. Those who after obtaining degree starts feeling that they have become professional loses the race and those who keep learning excel, in later part of life.

The above suggestions are applicable to trainees as well as to those who are in job. In my opinion and according to my experience, if someone follows the above suggestions he will be benefitted definitely.

Hope every reader will find this article to be beneficial. If you find this article to be beneficialthen please give your feedback.

I will write the next article on “How to Start Practicing a Profession” only, if I will receive a positive feedback from the readers.

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China, a country ruled by communists which don’t respect human rights and has isolated itself from the whole world, is considered to be responsible for spreading the deadliest virus called COVID 19. It is the most dangerous virus since 1920, taking toll of more than 0.5 million people till date. It is a non-friendly country which believes in hiding information and wants to rule the world through unethical practices. No person living in China can freely express his views or opinion. The doctor who spoke about Covid 19 was found dead, immediately after his video went viral. So, you can very well imagine, what type of country China is. Besides this, China has expansionist policies. It is trying to grab the land of all the countries, sharing borders with it. That is why, a few months ago it tried to intrude in Doklam and now in Galwan in Ladakh valley. All thanks to God. This time we have a powerful person like Mr. Narendra Modi, to deal with this demon country.

Due to Galwan misadventure of China, in which our 20 army men martyred, the public decided to boycott Chinese goods. Keeping in view the Public sentiments, the Government has also initiated the process to find the goods which can be banned or on which anti-dumping duties can be imposed.

With the Central Government banning 59 Chinese Apps, the process of boycotting Chinese goods has started. I am of the opinion that we shall not import anything from China, except the things which are direly needed and without which we cannot survive. Moreover, in case we have any other option available, as compared to the Chinese goods, though costly, should be preferred by all of us. For goods of general use, without which we can afford to live, should not be imported at all.

We know it is very difficult to stop each and everything but at the same time we need to differentiate between want and necessity. Only the things which are necessity should be imported and that too if no other alternative is available to us. We should buy or use the alternative, even if it is costly and should treat the extra cost as our contribution towards nation’s security. We cannot go to borders to fight for country and thus spending a few rupees extra to buy Indian goods in preference to Chinese goods will be our contribution.

Here the businessmen and importers also have a very crucial role to play. They are the person who brought these Chinese goods in India and made a market for them. Initially, they were priced at very low rates and when the public started buying them, they raised the rates. Presently, we are buying everything almost at the same prices at which Indian goods were available with the only difference that during this time the Indian manufacturer has been wiped out of the market in this dummy price war. China played a havoc with us. They captured our whole market leaving millions of people unemployed. Our rural products and markets have been wiped out, completely. Due to rise in import of cheap goods from China, many industries in India were forced to shut down, many kutir udyog, gram udyog, micro and small industries were also shut down resulting in massive unemployment.

Actually, this has not happened in a year or two. It is a result of our wrong policies initiated long ago, in the name of liberalisation of economy without proper planning. We have followed the economic policies of so-called well-educated economist, who had knowledge of world economy but nil understanding and knowledge about Indian economy. They failed to plan a thorough policy keeping in view the Indian perspective, wherein the rural and gram and kutir udyog needed to be saved.

Indian economy, which at some point of time before the Mughal invaders came in, had a massive share in world trade of more than 30{551c903f756d5bf12b7d58e2eb1e8b74af35058efa7a05d3e7b41e9147979503} which started reducing during the invader’s and Britisher’s rule. Even after getting independence, our leaders at that time were so impressed with European culture that they never thought of promoting Indian culture or goods, rather concentrated on running India in western style. This policy of ignoring Indian goods and preferring the European goods proved very costly to us because we started importing more goods than our exports. This trade deficit in long run forced us to open our economy for outsiders, who came in and ruined our rural, gram and kutir udyog. Had proper attention been paid, at that time, to our gram and kutir udyog which included hand crafts, plantation of herbs and ayurvedic medicines, we would have become a super power by now. Our economy was agriculture based and we used to export foodgrains, pulses, spices, herbs and medicinal plants to the Middle East, European and other countries. Our government badly failed to promote our specialities and to modernise them. No research was done on ayurvedic and herbal medicines otherwise it would have provided the best substitute to allopathy system of medicine, which has maximum side effects. Instead of promoting our products abroad, the government started copying the west and promoted manufacturing of items which were used there.

So, the step by step fall of Indian economy started with Mughal invaders, Britishers, then wrong policies of our First PM Mr. Nehru (who was fond of western culture) who never liked Indian Culture but became PM even at the cost of dividing India into two parts. It was only Mrs. Indira Gandhi who had some understanding of Indian culture and that’s why the green revolution was brought in. Later on, the wrong policies in the name of liberalisation made us suffer a lot. For unknown reasons, import of those goods was also allowed which were produced in India. Anti-dumping duties were either removed or reduced to the extent that Indian goods proved costly as compared to imported and the result of which is before us.

At one point of time in 1989, the foreign exchange reserve had fallen to the lowest level and there was a necessity of bringing in the foreign exchange. That was the time when some wrong decisions were taken, for the reasons better known to them only. Liberalisation of economy was a necessity but allowing unregulated imports, by reducing import duties and that too on goods which were manufactured in India, proved fatal for Indian Industry. Instead of supporting the industry in modernisation and upgradation, the government allowed import by reducing the duty to minimum.

The government’s decision to open the economy without considering the future of Indian Industry and particularly the labour-intensive industries, just on the basis of flimsy assumptions, without proper and thorough planning to save and promote Indian products in world market, its long term impacts on the country’s financial position, went wrong to such extent that reversing their bad impact will take years to come.

Now, in present position, we are heavily dependent on Chinese raw material, machinery and finished goods that it is next to impossible to stop importing everything from China. Those who were and are praising the former economist being the most intelligent and brilliant person, should come forward and tell us the way out. Even the most surprising fact is that the China had grabbed a piece of land even during the tenure of that so-called intelligent economist being PM of our country and he could not understand, even in that situation the level of threat India could face, in future.

To make India a super power, fight the tough competition and to price our products genuinely, we need to take few steps to reduce the cost, such as:

  1. Improve the work culture to increase the productivity through dedication.
  2. Minimise the number of holidays, which at present is very high.
  3. Stop distributing freebies due to which either the government imposes more tax or it has lesser amount in hand to support the industry.
  4. Reduce the transportation costs by developing industrial clusters or corridors.
  5. Industrial associations must utilise the government funded schemes for developing common R & D facilities.
  6. Industrial houses must support the young talent in carrying out R & D.
  7. To open Skill development centres on large-scale, as per industry needs.
  8. Technological upgradation in every industry to increase output.
  9. More attention on planting herbs and medicinal plants.
  10. Maximise investment in Ayurvedic Research to minimise dependence on Allopathy.
  11. Develop the tourist spots, throughout India, through PPP mode.
  12. Providing international marketing platform for Handicraft items, items manufactured in our small villages.
  13. Last but not the least, we understand that a country has to enter into various treaties and agreements being a member of various international organisations and therefore, certain things can’t be restricted by the government but we, as a citizen, can always make a choice while buying goods. And here lies the biggest responsibility on our shoulders as a responsible and diligent citizen.

Above are the few points which may be helpful in making India a self-reliant country which would suo motu bring employment opportunities, removal of poverty, increase in literacy, etc., etc. and then we will not be far away from becoming a super power.

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The basic Sanatan philosophy followed the culture and tradition as prescribed by the four Vedas which cover all aspects of life and tells how todeal with problems and situations. Till we followed the Vedas in true letter and spirit, we were world leaders in every field and that was the reason, why everyone wanted to capture our country. Our country was rich in everything. May it be precious stones, herbs, culture and tradition, science and technology, types of food grains, natural beauty, hills, rivers, forest or anything else you mention. Not even at that time, but today also, if you compare our country with world’s any country you will find that we have plenty of resources which can make us world power, if utilized properly and honestly.

If you see the world’s powerful nations, you will find that they can’t enjoy four seasons, variety of food grains, pulses, fruits, vegetables, natural beauty, number of languages spoken, number of religions and above all the emotional bonding we enjoy here in India. That’s why the foreigners visiting India, love to visit again. 

The only reason, we lagged behind is corruption and dishonesty which prompts a person to betray his own persons. We have heard various stories of demons, from our parents. Since, the beginning of human life on earth, demons have been there,in one form or the other. Hrinaya Kashyap, Ravan, Kans and alikes were alwaysthere. What changed was only the name. Even in old times people used to betray their relatives for the sake of kingdom. The greed takes away honesty and makes the person corrupt.

The Mughal invaders succeeded to enter India only due to greedy, selfish, dishonest and corrupt persons. Many kings of those days, preferred to allay with mughals instead of supporting Indian rulers just because of jealousy or greed. Had our countrymen been honest, no one could have entered here. If you check out the past of these Mughals, they were only dacoits. They came to India witha few armed people, just as beggars and not having proper cloths to wear, even. They succeeded in entering India just because of betrayal of some greedy, selfish and corrupt people.

When the Britishers entered India they also adopted the same policy of taking help of such dishonest people. Britishers could have been thrown out of India in 1857 itself, had those freedom fighters been not betrayed by some selfish people. Even at the time of Independence, India suffered the jolt of partition just due to such selfish and greedy people. Just think, why India was partitioned?The reason given for partition was that the two different cultures, who have entirely different lifestyles, can’t remain together. If this was the reason, then why the whole community did not leave India?

It was a great conspiracy against our country and we were be fooled by some persons, whom we trusted the most. If even after partition, the large section of that community was not ready to go there then, why the partition was done and if the partition was inevitable then the entire community must have gone there. But no, the reason was not two different communities rather it was also a result of greed and selfishness of two persons and the third one played a vital negative role because he disrespected the opinion of all other leaders, to please two persons.

That greed, selfishness, corruption continued as one family has considered the country as their ancestral property. We are so blind that we never questioned, how that family got billions of rupees even though none of them does any work in his/ her life. They are living a lavish life like king. The government of India took over majority of assets of all the rulers and, this family became a sole ruler of India, how? Just because of their loyalty to British emperor. Not only this family, even all other near and dear ones became billionaires without doing anything. The level of corruption was so huge that you can’t even imagine. If you wish to know the truth just check out the past of these leaders and see how they have grown. The greed, selfishness, dishonesty and corruption are the reasons due to which we are unable to compete with the world.

The person offering bribe is equally guilty like the person accepting bribe. So, we also have to discourage offering bribe. We need a movement like swachh bharat to eradicate corruption and before alleging others, we must make ourselves honest. The day we all will decide to act honestly in our day today life the whole battle will be won and we will march towards becoming the world power.

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A word that has literally destroyed Bharat or Hindustan. A word which made “Bharat”, India. We are the oldest living civilization on this earth. Many religions have vanished from earth, do you know why? Just because of the above-mentioned word “appeasement”.

I know it is hard to believe but it is a truth. If you try to search out the reasons for it, you may find appeasement as a basic and common factor amongst all. Frankly speaking, appeasement is the way, either to keep the other person calm or to pacify him by accepting unreasonable demands, so that some benefit may accrue to you in future.

If you search for the reason, why Britishers left Bharat, you will find that they left Bharat due to fear of Sh. Subash Chandra Bose’s Indian National Army and this fact was duly recorded in the minutes of British Parliament, when the resolution for leaving Bharat was passed. You may ask that if it was so, then why our grandparents / parents have always taught us that we got independence only because of Mr. Gandhi and Mr. Nehru?

Actually, at that time there were no means of communication. Even, there used to be a single telephone and that too only in the office/ residence of the highest government officer of district. In simple words, only the government officials were having access to that communication medium. General public was not having any such facility. For travelling from one village to another bullock carts were used. Very few trains and that too between some major cities were available. Bengal was the Capital of country and people used to go there for doing business or employment. Even the news of death of near and dear ones, used to reach after months and that too only when someone came back to village.

In those days the medium of communication between the government and public was “Munadi”. A person beating drum used to move ahead of another person, announcing the message. So, what happened in the political circles at Calcutta, no one was aware. Public was told, what the powerful and mighty wished to inform.

Neta ji Subash Chandra Bose, who was selected as an I.C.S.at that time, left the job for freedom struggle. He was very intelligent and was fluent in English language. He flew abroad to seek the help of other countries for armed freedom struggle and succeeded in getting favour of six countries. Britishers got afraid of his Indian National Army, because on the one hand he got support of six countries and on the other hand, the Indian soldiers in British Army started revolting. Britishers were afraid that the Indian Soldiers may join Neta ji and in that case, they will be thrown out of country, which will be insulting and bring a disrepute to British Crown. So, they appeased few Indian leaders by offering them lucrative post of Prime Minister and alike. The biggest proof of this is, they formed “Indian National Congress” through their officer A.O. Hume. They also succeeded in dividing the leaders on religious basis and resultantly two countries, India and Pakistan were formed. Britishers were well aware that if they will hand over the power to Mr. Bose, they will not be able to divide Bharat and to take any undue advantage.

The greed for power and selfishness was so heavy that the so called “Ganga- Jamuni tehjib”, which you might be hearing nowadays, went to hell and Bharat stood divided. Although, Mr. Vallabh Bhai Patel was unanimously elected as president by INC executive but Mr. Gandhi, for the reasons known to him, favoured Nehru to be first the PM.

That British policy of divide and rule was thoroughly adopted by INC in letter and spirit. In beginning there was no challenge for them but as the time passed, other intelligent and daring persons like Sardar Patel, Lal Bahadur Shashtri came into picture. When it became evident that they might lose power, the game of dividing and appeasing started. First and foremost was to appease Muslim community, although till date no good has been done to them. Then, the game of dividing Hindu / Muslim started. It worked for 15 years and again another plan to divide the Hindus on caste basis started. Further, it went on to SC/ST/OBC and like.

If you carefully study the whole gamut of event, you will find that every time, whenever there was any threat to resuming power, a new division took place. Appeasement was of such a high level that, those appeased become the biggest looser and interestingly, they are not aware of that fact till date. Allowing minorities to teach their religious books in their educational institutions and banning the same for Hindus was one of such examples. Launching various schemes citing unreasonable reasons, Garibi Hatao, then reservation to this caste and to another caste next time and so on and so forth. The biggest game of appeasement was played in 1989 in the name of “Mandal Commission” whereby reservation was given to certain castes but it has not benefitted them till date. The reason is rich and capable person of those castes are getting jobs and those who are poor are unable to take any benefit. Had it not been an appeasement policy, it should have been made on economic basis.

The root cause of whatever problems we are facing today lies in the appeasement policies being implemented by the past governments and now it has taken such a bad shape that if someone tries to set it right; threat of large-scale riots is looming over the country. So, the only way out is to create awareness about disadvantages of reservation on caste basis, among the people at large. Free education and coaching for competitive exams may be an alternative instead of appeasement policies, which are causing loss not only to concerned persons but to the nation at large.   

EGO, a word which is generally used by everyone, whenever there is a dispute or argument within a family. This is a silent killer of relations. What a nuclear bomb can do to a country, EGO does to a family. It acts like termite and eats away the love, affection, concern, feelings, emotions, sentiments. Many times, it is not visible on the ground, exactly as the termite does, but keep harming the relations slowly, slowly. A perfect example of this can be seen in case of newly wedded couple. Just recall the first argument you had with your spouse and result of it, and the latest one. You will find that after that first argument one of you might have foregone his/ her ego, which acted as a treatment. If one of you continued to shed his/ her ego, then certainly you kept on treating it and that’s why you both are together till date.

This termite has grown so fast and is so infectious, a disease, that even small children are suffering from it. Today, even if the school going children is suggested to do something in particular manner by parents, he/ she feels offended and is not ready to listen, why? Is that not ego? Ego, that he/ she knows everything and does not need parents’ advice. They rely on their friends more than parents, why?

Definitely we are lacking somewhere. Most probably, while upbringing our children we are not paying that much of attention which is required. In past, mothers were able to devote their full attention to family affairs and accordingly she was keeping a close watch on every movement of their children. But now, since the women are working, they are unable to keep a close tab on each and every activity of their children. Moreover, even in joint families the children are not so well behaved because, due to adoption of western culture children are not ready to listen to their grand parents’ advice. They consider them as old fashioned and orthodox.

Another reason for children’s such rude, arrogant and indifferent behaviour is our own attitude towards our parents/ in laws. We do not take their advice seriously, for the same reason that we consider our thinking to be more appropriate and modern. Is that not “EGO”. A feeling of “Self” in everything and everywhere. Putting self over everyone and everything. This attitude also create trouble in the husband-wife relationship. The most obvious reason for misunderstanding or quarrel is this attitude. If you see around you, you will find every second women comparing her job/ work with that of husband. The normal and common question is “Is my job not as important as that of my husband?”, and here the EGO comes into play. If you are interested in considering your job/ work, as important as that of your husband, then let us discuss other related questions also. Are you ready to take the responsibility of whole family’s financial burden, without asking any question, as your husband does? I assure you, if you feel that you are ready to do that, just take that burden for six months and you will surrender that responsibility on your own.

Same is the case of husband who feels that women’s job of managing home and family is less important. I challenge such husband to manage the home for a period of three months and see if he does not surrender before that.  

The abovesaid issues and feelings create a lot of problem every time and everywhere. Until and unless husband and wife respect each other’s job profile, whole heartedly, this unseen “EGO” feeling will sway away all your happy moments.

I am not saying that what the women does is not important but I want to convey that the women’s job is as important as the men’s job. We should never compare them with each other because the God has created both of them with certain specific and different qualities and hence comparing them is an insult to god’s creation. God has given strength and weakness to both of them but the nature different in each case. So, it would be better if we respect god’s creation and shed away the most dangerous and damaging thing called “EGO” from our life.

Self-Guilt means a wrong or unethical act done or committed by a person and about which the sufferer may or may not be aware but which keeps haunting the doer. It includes acts which might have caused loss to others or the doer himself/ herself. An act of stealing some one’s write up and taking credit of writing it, may make that person guilty conscious. In another case one may be cursing himself/ herself for his/ her bad habit.
Self-Guilt is a point which is never talked about, neither amongst the family nor friends, although it is a major cause of depression. Many people feel depressed because of self-guilt till they share the same with someone. Mostly, this issue remains unshared because the person doesn’t want to get himself/ herself exposed. The feeling of, what the people will think about him/ her, stops him/ her from sharing the same with anybody.
Mostly every person in life face such problem, it is a hard fact. According to various psychological counsellors, people don’t share such acts or incidents with others due to various reasons such as feeling shy or guilty, shameful, getting exposed, fear of boycott by society, social stigma etc. etc. Even such persons don’t visit or consult psychological counsellors in this regard for above mentioned reasons.
People pay a very heavy price for acts done or incidents occurred during their childhood or teenage. They feel as if they have committed an act which is unpardonable whereas it is very common for a human being to commit such mistakes and acts due to human nature.
“To err is human” is not a false saying. So, it is better to share, discuss and resolve such issues, as early as possible. When you discuss it with others, you feel relaxed and the haunting memories of such incident/ act, slowly gets faded away from your memory lane.
This platform is a fantastic place to share, discuss and resolve such issue. Here you can also seek help of experts besides views of other subscribers. Don’t worry even if many people give adverse comments on your post, rather in that case ask for help from expert. Many people out of those who post adverse comment are actually hypocrite, who pretend themselves to be the most ideal persons, which they are not.
An act already committed cannot be undone, so, then what is the fun in carrying that guilt and making your life miserable.
So, don’t worry what others say, just share your bad memories and get rid of them to move ahead in life for better future.