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Dost aaj kal ye problem bahut common hai kyuki aajkal ki ladkiyo ko har tarah ki aazadi chahiye. Vo chahti hai vo apni marji se jaage, kaam wali kaam kar jaye, vo apne hisab se mobile pe chatting kare, jab chahe soye, TV dekhe or life enjoy kare. Unhe pariwar se matlab nahi hota. Unhe pariwar ki jarurat tab pata chalti hai jab dusra bacha ho jaye or ghar ka kaam, bacho ko sambhalna, school bhejna or sab kuch manage karne pade. Unhe saas ki yaad aati hai bache sambhalne k liye taki vo azadi se ghumne ja sake ya jab koi illness aa jaye. Usme bhi kayi ladkiya saas ki jagah apni maa ki help lena pasand karti hai.
Aisi halaat me aap ya aapka bhai strictly apni biwi or uske pariwar ko bol de ki jaise vo chahti hai vaise kabhi nahi hoga. Ya phir aapka bhai apni biwi se baat kare ki usko aapki maa se kya problem hai or sort out kare. Unhe apni biwi ko thoda strictly kehna hoga or na maane to thode din dur rehkar usse ahsas karwaya ja sakta hai. Ye bhi possible hai ki aapke mata g kuch jyada expectation karte ho to unhe bhi thoda adjust karna padega.