The answer to your problem lies in the following questions:
1. Are you ready to marry her and adopt her child as father?
2. Is she ready to marry you?
3. Are you both ready to face the relatives and family members?
4. Can you both dare to tell your families about this relationship?
Your relationship is nothing more than attraction and for her it is just physical need. Just ask her if she is ready to accept your relationship openly? If she is ready than you need to be careful because in that case it is an emotional attachment. In such a case you need to provide her some alternative option. It may be counseling or help of some of her close friend or relative.
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