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radhey
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Dost ye achi baat hai ki vo khud aapke liye ladki dekh rahi. Aapko ab apna pakka decision le ke shadi kar leni chahiye par us se pehle ek baat samajh lo ki vo lady bahut achi hogi par yehi relation or halat ekdum alag ho jate hai jab shadi ho jaye isliye ek baat yaad rakhna ki apni biwi ko is lady se kabhi compare mat karna.
Vaise bhi premika or wife me hamesha farak hota hai. Ye baat tumhe vo ache se samajha denge jinki love marriage huyi ho. Shadi se pehle pyar hi pyar hota hai jabki baad me responsibilities or dusre rishte bhi nibhane padte hai jis vajah se takrar shuru ho jati hai. Mei ye baat isliye bata rahu hu taki shadi k baad tum apni wife k saath khush raho or ha is lady se apne relations ko restrict karo. Pehle to milo hi mat or milo to bhi bhi sabki presence me. Ab ye mat kehna ki pyar kartu hu uske bina nahi reh sakta kyuki agar tum usse chodne k liye mentally prepare nahi ho to shadi mat karna kyuki us ladki ki jindagi bhi barbad ho jayegi or tumhari bhi.
Isliye pehle mentally prepare ho jao or usse bhi bolo ki tum dono sirf dost ban k rahoge or miloge bahut kam or dhire dhire us se dur jana hi tumhare future k liye thik rahega.