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  • #1358
    namita
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    Hi..

    i namita (not my real name)..

    i belongs to a lower middle class family… m smart and beautiful.my friends called me beauty with brain ..

    since class 12th m in relationship with a boy who is in my class and we have college life together and now after 6 yrs of relation m very confused…

    maine apni life mai 21 yrs tak kbhi car mai baith krr b nhi dkha… and jo mera bf hai vo b lower middle class family se e hai… but he is smart, 6packs abs and all…

    abhi mere office mai jha mai job krti hu.. mere boss ne e mughe marriage k lie approach kia hai he is 7 yrs elder than me… and he is too much rich pr smart nhi hai…. bt vaise bhot hi-fi hai….

    to ab mai decide ni krr paa rhi k shadi krru kisse. … jo 12k kamata hai usse ya jo mera boss hai usse….

    Dil bf ki taraf ishara krta hai dimag boss ki taraf….

    6 packs vs 6 cars ki ladai hai….

    plz btaao mai kyaa kruu….. clear cut btana diplomatic answer mt krna….

    #1364
    Chiku
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    Dear Namita, it is very unfair. Just for the sake of money you are thinking of leaving your boyfriend, your love or i would say that you never loved him. You were just attracted towards his personality. If you would have actually loved him then you would have immediately said to your boss that you are in love but when you are thinking about your boss, it means you never loved your boyfriend.
    And when you don’t love him then it doesn’t matter as to whom do you marry.
    By the way, boyfriend se shaadi kar ke paisa baad mein kamaya jata sakta hai par paise ke liye shaadi karogi aur baad mein uss se pyar nahi hua toh??

    #1365
    shribala
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    Dear Namita ,is baat ka ans. Tum apne aap se shant ho kar pucho jis ladke ke saath tumhara itne saalon se relation hai wo kitna aur kahaan tak hai ,kya bas bahut acchi friendship hai tum us ki six abs pe Mohit ho ya dil se us ko bahut jyada chahti ho us ke six abs kal ko nhi rhe toh bhi pyar karti ho ,kahin sirf fascination toh nhi.Agar tum ji jaan se us ladke se pyaar karti ho us ke saath kaise bhi halat mein reh sakti ho toh us se hi shadi karo ,Agar tum us ko bhul sakti ho aur kisi aur ke baare mein soch rhi ho toh matlab pyar nhi tha ,ye tumhe khud hi apne aap se pta lgana hai kahin apni aur un dono ki life se khilwad mat kar dena.Agar apne boss se shadi kar ke us ladke ko miss karogi toh dono ko cheat karogi.

    #1369
    hanu
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    Namita ji aaj k time me paisa bahut baddi cheej hai. Aapka paise ki taraf attract hona koyi galat nahi hai par iska matlab ye bhi nikalta hai ki aap us ladke ki taraf attracted ho pyar vyar nahi hai.
    Jara socho agar kal ko tumhare boyfriend ne car le li phir thik hai? Agar tumhare boss k paas kal ko paisa na raha to kya tum khush rahogi?
    Aaj boss se shadi karli or kal ko boy friend ne bhi car le li phir?
    Actually ye sab ek mind set hai or iski priority aapko hi decide karni hai. Paisa to aata jata rehta hai. Agar aapki kismat me hua to aapka boyfriend ya aap khud bhi kama loge or agar kismat me sukh nahi hua to jo hai vo bhi nahi rahega.
    Boss se shadi karke bhi ye na ho ki aap apne boy friend ki taraf attracted raho or paise boss ka or friendship us se to kal ko problem hi hogi.
    Aap isi site k family issues or dusre forum paddlo unme aise problems log face kar rahe hai.

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