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Mujhe toh ab ye bhi lagta hai ki wo lady ab thik hai but us ko aadat ho gyi hai ek alag support ki jis ki koi responsibility toh hai nhi us ke upar na us ke family ke saath nibhana na us ka koi kaam karna bas aaram se apne Munn ki baatein kar lo ,ab toh tum dur ho jao dheere dheere phir shadi kar ke settle ho jao varna kuch time baad shadi bhi nhi hogi and us ka beta teenage mein sab samjhne lagega wo apni family mein busy ho jayegi tum latkte reh jaoge ,thoda samjhdari se kaam lo, wo lady is baat ko samajh rhi hai is liye tumhe shadi ke liye kah rhi hai and chiku ji ne thik likha hai jab shadi ke baad tumhe tumhari wife ke saath dekhegi May be jealous ho ,us ka apna toh ghar sambhal gya ,ab tum sambhal jao us lady ke liye time pass and Munn ki baat karne ka support ban ke apni life mat bigado.Agar shadi ke baad bhi us se mile tumhari wife ko pakka pta chal jayega ,us ka kuch nhi bigdane wala tumhari life khrab ho jayegi sambhal jao milna dheere dheere kam kar ke bilkul band kar do.
Dear rsharma tumhari dusri post padhne ke baad aise lag rha hai ki kahin tum kisi ladki ki life spoil na kar dena shadi kar ke,kyun ki tum keh rahe ho tumhe us ke saath bahut comfortable lgta hai baat kar ke etc.etc.toh tum arrange marriage mat karo agar karo bhi toh pehle us ladki se baar baar mil ke baat karo jis bhi ladki ke saath baat karte hue tum itne mast ho jao ki wo lady tumhe yaad hi nhi rahe aur tum ye feel karo ki main is ladki se bhi sari baat share kar sakta hun and bahut khush hun tab shadi ke baare mein sochna,abhi jaldi mein arrange marriage mat karna .
Pehle toh ekdum Munn se galti mano kyun ki tum se galti hue hai wo lady galat thi tum bhi us ke jaise hi ho gye dusri baat ab apni wife se kaise bhi kar ke milo aur us ko Sara sach batao ki tum ne galti kaise haalat mein ki us ki Chachi ka sach batao , us ke parents ki insult nhi honi chahiye vishwas dilane ki puri koshish karo ki phir kabhi aisi galati nhi karuga ,apni wife ko batao ki tum us ko chahte ho aur tumhe maaf kar de request karo pyar ,pyar aur koshish se hi kuch ho sakta hai,All the best Agar tum sacche aur acche ho toh wo maan jayegi nhi toh….
Dear Namita ,is baat ka ans. Tum apne aap se shant ho kar pucho jis ladke ke saath tumhara itne saalon se relation hai wo kitna aur kahaan tak hai ,kya bas bahut acchi friendship hai tum us ki six abs pe Mohit ho ya dil se us ko bahut jyada chahti ho us ke six abs kal ko nhi rhe toh bhi pyar karti ho ,kahin sirf fascination toh nhi.Agar tum ji jaan se us ladke se pyaar karti ho us ke saath kaise bhi halat mein reh sakti ho toh us se hi shadi karo ,Agar tum us ko bhul sakti ho aur kisi aur ke baare mein soch rhi ho toh matlab pyar nhi tha ,ye tumhe khud hi apne aap se pta lgana hai kahin apni aur un dono ki life se khilwad mat kar dena.Agar apne boss se shadi kar ke us ladke ko miss karogi toh dono ko cheat karogi.
Dear rsharma,abhi tumhari age bahut young hai and wo lady ki bhi life bahut baki hai, puri life tum dono and us ka 10years ka beta nhi bita sakte ,us lady ko pyar se samjha do ki tum preshan thi and hum dono ka relation aise kisi weak moment mein start ho gya ab hum dono ko apni apni life mein laut jana chahiye tumhare husband ko forgive kar do and tum dono ke bete ki life ke baare mein socho.Agar tum kisi aisi job mein ho ki transfer ho sakta hai toh ekbaar apna transfer karwa ke is mahol se dur chale jao ,upar chiku ji ne bhi bilkul thik likha hai ,tum dono jaldi se alag ho jao is sepehle ki tumhari family and us ke husband ke aage ye baat khul jaye us lady ko samjha do ki koi izzat nhi reh jayegi jo galti hue so hue ab sambhal jao and aage ki life ke baare mein kuch time baad sochna nhi toh ek innocent ladki ki life spoil ho jayegi jis se tum shadi karoge , isliye pehle ye relation ekdum finish kar do phir shadi ke baare mein sochna ,is ko apni life ki ek badi bhool samjh ke bhul jao ,us lady ko bta do ab us ke husband mein and us mein koi difference nhi rha us ne bhi cheat kiya hai apne husband ko isliye baki life apne bete ke bare mein soch kar husband ke saath normal ho jaye and tumhe bhul kar apne ghar per dhyan de.
Hamare ek jankar hain un ke saath same aisa hi hua un ke bhi do bete hi hain un ko haar kar bade bete ko alag karna hi padaa but phir sab thik ho gya wo apni beti ke saath daily apne mummy papa ke pass milne aata and second bete ki shadi un ki jaan pehchan mein hue aur sab bahut accha hai second wale ki wife bahut hi acchi hai ,un ki mother bhi thode purane vicharon ki hain but second wali bahu acche se adjust kar rhi hai pehle hi clear kar liya tha
Dear yuvi , tumhari dusri mail padh kar ekdum clear ho gya ki tumhari bhabhi jab tak tumhare saath rahegi aisa hi mahol rahega ghar mein ,bura lag rha hai likhna but ye hi sahi rahega ki tumhare bhaiya ekdum ghar ke pass hi dusra ghar le kar rahein, agar present house mein do floor hain toh ek mein un ko shift kar do is se pass bhi rahenge aur ghar mein shanti bhi rahegi agar pyar se baat kar ke shift karoge toh tumhare bhaiya daily milte rahenge apni family se apni daughter ke saath bhabhi ka Munn ho toh aaye otherwise nhi.Tum apni shadi ke liye aisi ladki dekho Jo tumhari family ko jante ho aur tum log un ki, pehle hi ladki ko clear shabdon mein kah dena ki tum kabhi bhi apne parents se alag nhi rahoge aur isliye us ladki ko kahna ki wo tumhari mummy se mil kar phir bataye aur ekdum clear kah dena mere bhai bhabhi alag hain main nhi rahunga .
Dear letshare , Definitely you will overcome this problem after sometime because this is a temporary phase , reality is that, you are a strong person .Keep yourself engage by reading some good books ,try Ramayan and Bhagwad Geeta.
Dear Manisha ,
May be it’s right that there is some reason but some time it’s in nature,my nephew is also very short tempered ,his wife keep telling me “kal choti si baat pe gussa karne lag gye main toh chupchap door ja ke koi kaam karne lag gyi 2 minutes ke baad wapas aa ke baat ki, kyun itni choti baat per itna gussa, aaram se bhi baat kar sakte the maine kha tab chup ho gye ,un ki marriage ko 18 years ho gye dheere dheere bahut change aa gya ,wo bhi bahut accha hai bas gussa control nhi hota, lekin us ki wife us ko gussa aata hai toh ekdum short answer kar ke kahin aur ja ke jaise kitchen mein ya kahin bhi kuch kaam karne lagti hai us se us ki wife ko puri baat nhi sunti jis ke kaaran wo bhi gussa nhi karti aur kuch hi minutes mein sab normal ho jata hai,try this and we can talk further on this topic , this is very normal Manisha don’t worry , the best side which you told is his nature,if he is good then else will be ok.Please tell why you marry that person when he his imperfect and why you took medicine when you have not any problem,why did not you refuse to take medicine.We want to discuss and advice you . Don’t worry the world is not only in that house where you married ,world around you is very beautiful think for yourself and for your family and some more information about you ,I asked in starting so that our experts will give you right advice in your case
Hello 77777, First of all be positive remove all negative thoughts and tell about your qualification what are you doing ,working or house maker.
We don’t know what products you are importing ,I know it is very easy to say and it takes time investment and hardwork but if it is possible because government also announced help (loan)to the people who want a fresh start ,And another easy way you can buy products from the cities where the products manufactured and sell where you live for example Clothes from Surat, Namkeen and sweets from Rajasthan, cosmetics from Sadarbazar Delhi and more if you survey you find something ,keep in touch we can talk further .
ये बात बिल्कुल सही है कि जब कोई भी इस कदर तनाव में होता है ,एक तो सच्चा मित्र और दूसरे डाक्टर की सलाह और इलाज मिल जाए तभी इस परिस्थिति को टाला जा सकता है , कोई सुनने वाला सच्चा दोस्त ना हो पास उस तनावपूर्ण स्थिति में और वो खुद डाक्टर के पास जाने की मानसिक स्थिति में ना हो तो ऐसी भीषण घटना घटित हो जाती है, इसलिए हम सब की ये ज़िम्मेदारी भी है कि हमारी जानकारी में कोई भी अगर ऐसे हालात से गुज़र रहा हो उस के परिवार एवं उस के मित्र को इस बात की जानकारी दें और जब तक कोई उस के पास नहीं आ जाए उस को किसी भी तरह से अकेला ना छोड़ें.
Now a days many persons are going through this problem first of all I advise you don’t worry if you were feeling better with medicine which was given to you by doctor and only because you feel that why should I take medicine Am I sick , don’t think like that take medicine prescribed by doctor and then side by side do exercise and yoga both,slowly doctor itself reduce your dose and then stop your medicine when you started feeling better , never stop exercise and yoga .I met people who went through this problem and now they are absolutely fine .Make a busy schedule for yourself , don’t sit idle and alone do anything you like painting , dancing ,singing, watching TV Engage yourself in the activities you like.
Apne friend ko ye bilkul bhi pta na lgne de ki aap ko doubt hai ki us ki married life thik nhi hai,kisi bhi bahane se baton baton mein pehle ye pta lagane ki koshish karen ki kya aap ka doubt sach hai ya ho sakta hai un ki wife ko us ke friends ka aana accha nhi lgta ho isliye wo sirf aap ke jane per aisa behave karti ho.
